Self Love Lab! Master 5 Components to Skyrocket Self-Belief

You say you want to find the love of your life who makes you feel safe, seen, and chosen… buttt how many times have you:

Cooked, cleaned, changed your schedule around, and given your ALL for a man who still couldn't commit to you
Played the "cool girl" while your secretly spiraling in your head and having major anxiety while asking yourself, "Where do I stand?"
Lowered your standards because you didn't want to seem needy, dramatic, or "too much" and push him away
Stayed in a situationship way too long because you hoped it would turn into something real and you "felt bad" cutting him off
Made excuses for his emotional unavailability because he had "potential" or the chemistry was strong
Told yourself "at least he's not cheating/abusive" instead of asking, "Is this really working for me?"
Tried to earn love by being useful, helpful, agreeable, low-maintenance, or endlessly understanding...

Listen, you want to get into the happiest, healthiest relationship of your LIFE? First you must choose YOU.

(This isn't about becoming colder, detached, or emotionally unavailable. It's about becoming so rooted in yourself that you stop chasing validation… and start choosing you first.)

So you no longer audition for love.
You don't beg for clarity.
You don't shrink to keep someone.
You become the woman who expects consistency, safety, and effort — and walks away when it's not there.

Self Love Lab was carefully designed for the woman who always finds herself giving too much — and accepting too little. This program will show you exactly how to stop looking for love outside yourself and start feeling chosen for who you are.

Have you heard the myth?

Every Instagram "self love coach" and their mother says it… "Just say affirmations, practice gratitude everyday, and be "authentic" and you will love yourself." Right? Wrong.

The problem?

That's not how this sh*t works.

I see you right now... You've tried everything: Saying yes when you wanted to say no, giving too much to men who couldn't see your worth, changing who you are just to be chosen… Only to end up feeling unseen, exhausted, and empty. Wondering when it will ever be your turn, or if you're running out of time to find the one...

This isn't because you're too much, or not worthy of love... It's because no one taught you how to choose you first, and it's why you're falling into relationship patterns that start off strong, but burn out just as fast.

...and making you feel disappointed that your life is not an everyday orgasm of rainbows and unicorns.

EXHALE: You don't actually have to "LOVE" everything about yourself 100% of the time in order to love & accept yourself fully. But it shouldn't be THIS hard:

You sign up for dating apps or put yourself out there, but tell yourself “I’m not gonna hold my breath.”

If someone doesn’t respond right away or seems a little off, you spiral into “Do they not like me anymore?” “Did I say something wrong?” “Are they mad at me

Every time a relationship doesn’t work out or you say something awkward in conversation, your self-worth takes a hit.

You abandon your boundaries when you really like someone because you don’t want to “scare them away.”

You lose excitement and become anxious 3 days into meeting someone because they’re not texting you enough.

I’ve been there…. And I’m giving you what I WISH someone had given me. Because *I KNOW* you are so FCKN lovable and valuable - You just need to tap into that yourself in a way that is actually REALISTIC and SUSTAINABLE.

SKYROCKETING your self-worth in a way that actually LASTS (and is completely unaffected by outside people or circumstances).

Feeling secure and stable in yourself and your relationships so that you no longer fear abandonment (no more clingy or needy behavior).

Trading the people-pleasing tendencies for elevated standards, boundaries, and communication skills that make you a MAGNET for healthy, long-lasting relationships

Putting yourself out there without fearing rejection or giving a F*CK what other people think.

(Yes, even if you don't look like the typical "Barbie" or "Ken" from Barbie World.)

You are DONE accepting the bare minimum. When you come across a toxic partner, you easily say “I’ll let the trash take itself out" instead of chasing them.

You find yourself wondering if someone is a good fit for you instead of doubting whether you're "good enough" for them.

You meet someone AMAZING who you really like instantly. You confidently communicate your boundaries upfront instead of abandoning your needs because you no longer fear "scaring them away."

Dreamy, healthy AF partners are waiting for room in your calendar.

You think about a goal you want to accomplish and give yourself all the compliments and hype to go for it instead of telling yourself all the reasons you can't do it or seeking external validation.

You feel good about yourself even when you've been rejected, you royally FCK something up at work, or you don't like what you see in the mirror (goodbyeee to the Regina George in your head

Until now!

The truth no one told you about “self love...”

Self love isn’t just about bubble baths, face masks, and chocolate every time you're feeling down.

It’s not affirmations you don’t really believe.

Or listening to self love books or podcasts daily just to ''feel better.''

And it’s definitely not about “just detach and be confident” jargon that doesn't really mean anything to you on a day-to-day basis..

Real self love is:

Not abandoning yourself when someone else pulls away.

Not overgiving to earn love and affection that you're simply worthy of just because.

Not changing who you are to keep someone who's not even meant for you.

Not confusing chemistry with emotional safety.

Self love is self-leadership. And that’s exactly what Self Love Lab teaches.

There are 5 essential components of self love that, when mastered, will SKYROCKET your self-worth. After helping thousands of women do this, I organized my method into what became Self Love Lab - Because I believe it shouldn’t be that hard. I believe everyone should have access to this strategy instead of spinning their wheels using the trial and error method in the dark.

The secrets to maintaining a high AF self-worth EVEN WHEN you've been "rejected," royally FCKED something up at work, or are having a bad body image day.

How to accept the parts of you that you DON'T LOVE (It's not possible to love every single thing about yourself all of the time - how exhausting)

My secret sauce guide to quickly shift your inner voice from Regina George from to Lizzo…

A detailed explanation of how to make yourself happy & regulate your OWN emotions so you can stop over-relying on partners for validation, reassurance and emotion regulation.

No more needing validation from other people or social media to feel good about yourself. By the end of this course, you’ll know you are worthy - without needing anyone else’s input.

No more believing no one would want to be with you. By the end of this course, you’ll finally see that you’re a total catch!

No more losing yourself in relationships. You’ll learn to build a rich, individual life you’re obsessed with!

No more deciding you’re valuable ONLY when things are going well. You’ll learn to cultivate a deep sense of worthiness that transcends any circumstance in your life (even when you’re NOT crushing it at work, going on amazing dates, or feelin’ yourself).

This course is for you if...

You feel like an endless to-do list of what you think you need to do in order for someone to choose you.

You’re over being the last single friend still swiping through dating apps, but you keep attracting the WRONG people over and over again.

You're easily affected by other people's moods (if your partner is in a bad mood, it derails your whole day).

You’ve bought all the self-help books, tried therapy, and they’re not doing anything for you.

You THOUGHT you had a good handle on your self-worth, but all the sudden when you put yourself out there in a new capacity (getting back in the dating pool, starting a new career or business venture) you spiral into “What if they don’t like me? Am I doing this right?”

Immediate access to 5 Modules of curriculum walking you through my therapist-tested proven Self Love process for creating lasting self-worth (See below for what's included in each module) [Valued at $1500]
Kelsey's SUPPORT in each lesson as you move through the course (Kelsey answers ALL questions in the comments section). [Valued at $777]
Your copy of The Self Love How-To Workbook - 52 pages full of exercises & concrete skills you can implement right away! (Including boundary templates) [Valued at $57]
A copy of my Daily Affirmations Journal and exact morning routine - My secret weapon for sustaining a HIGH AF level of self-worth every day! [Valued at $57]
Lifetime access to the course (including future updates!)

That's a total value of $2,391 (In true, non-inflated prices).

Shifting from loving everything about yourself to letting self-respect be enough
Spoiler: Self-respect has nothing to do with how many sexual partners you’ve had or how much skin you show
How to respect yourself even when you don’t love yourself
How to stop prioritizing everyone else and focus on YOUR needs, goals, and desires WITHOUT "feeling bad"
My formula for communicating boundaries in a WARM, compassionate, empathetic way (including EXACT PHRASING you can steal)
Cleaning up boundaries with YOURSELF (no more 2AM phone calls or Netflix binges)

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In this brand new training, I take you through my exact step-by-step process to finally cut off your situationship FOR GOOD and make sure you NEVER end up in one again.

These trainings have gotten results like this:

"I feel light and positive today after ending the situationship yesterday and I never thought that would be the case. This feeling is almost as good as falling in love because it's just so personally validating!!"

"I walked away from John and this gem of an emotionally intelligent man shows up like magic because for the first time I'm setting boundaries that stop the wrong men from wasting my time and make space for the right ones."

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